I decided to start writing my experiences in a blog. Maybe to help others in my situation, maybe to get advice from people who have been where I am, maybe just to help relieve some of the daily pressures I face... Any of these reasons are legit I guess!
As of January 1, 2010 my husband and I have been married for 2 years. Time really flies! Being a Marine's Wife has changed my life tremendously. I guess I never thought that the change would be so dramatic, but it sure was! After 2 years, I'm not sure that I would adapt well to a civillian life! Our world is so much different. I couldn't have ever imagined how much I would love the military life, but at the same time I hate it. I love the free health care, but hate that fact that it takes 10 years to get an appointment when you need it. I hate the fact that my husband works so much, but love the fact that he has job security. But no matter what I count my blessings!
In the past 2 years we have had our ups and downs. Everyone does, right? Some downs worse than others... seemingly unbareable... But we always pull through. When we have ups, they are the best... Like nothing could ever go wrong again.
The Number 1 "Up" for me so far is our Daughter!
This coming Saturday (the 9th) she will be 1! UGH! She is getting too big too fast! I know a lot of you can relate to these feelings! I thought it was exciting when she first rolled over, sat up, her first word, when she first crawled, when she took her first steps... But nothing can top this feeling for me. I am so excited for her first birthday! But at the same time I never want this week to end! My baby is a toddler now and I don't know if I can accept that fact :-).
Anywhoo... We are expecting our second child (another little girl) due April 28th! Ten days after my birthday! I am very excited! I know you Military mommas know this feeling - back to back babies! I am exhausted all the time, its hard to keep up with my 1 year old, and did I forget to mention the nausea, swelling, and all the lovely side effects of pregnancy?? But I would never change my life.
All these things are just an introduction to who I am and my life as the wife of a U.S. Marine. So stick with me and maybe I'll let you in on my life!
Great first post, Bethany. Keep it up!
Posted by: Sara J. | 01/04/2010 at 09:10 AM
Nice! Military life is different to say the least.
Posted by: Maranda | 01/04/2010 at 07:30 PM
I had no idea. You are awesome sweetheart, I wish you nothing but the best. You and Jay are made for each other. You have a beautiful daughter and you are such a great mother. Stay true to yourself and always embrace what Life has to offer.
Love,
Aunt Helen
Posted by: Helen | 01/04/2010 at 09:37 PM